when it's yours, means it's yours. but how do you know whether it's truly yours? well, it will come back to you even if you lose it. no matter what, it will come back to you, if it's reli yours.


just cant believe tt i actually said it. sounds chim!! wahahaha.


hence, everybody, pls treasure whatever you have, esp those which you lost it before, and it came back to you.


and i realise, friends are reli great influence. i mean it's not only now den i realise this, but i mean, it's reli scary what it can do to you.

example 1. when your friends around you are obsessed with weight-losing, gradually you will too. and it's terrible. i see how you are so greatly and deeply obsessed with weight losing, i feel so sorry for you. you cant compare pple's weight like tt, cux different pple has different bone structure and metabolism rate. and cux you wanna lose weight, you are working like crazy??? wow. tt's madness! you should know how to take care of yourself. yes, it's good to push yourself to see what's your limit. but i just want to be very sure tt you know what you are doing. if you say you know, den fine. we'll all let you do what you want.


example 2. peer pressure harms relationships. when you see tt your friends feel that it's better to be friends, and you feel tt they are right, den you are ruining your happiness and hurting your partner. it's so super unfair! hmmx. your partner did not do anything wrong, and just cux some friends of yours start brain-washing you tt being friends, you'll have more option etc or whatever reasons they give you, den you decide to do the same too? i mean, dun you have a mind of your own??? diff pple lead diff lives and have diff perspective. one shouldn't give up your happiness cux of peer pressure. think for yourself! and not let others control you.


example 3. do i have example 3? i duno. haha. will think abt it...


[simple thoughts] i had great fun today. and i learnt alot today. hope everything will go very smoothly for both of you. dun anyhow think rubbish. and dun let what others say affect you. your happiness is in front of you alr. why trouble yourself and look for another one again? the next one may not be as good as the present. but if you are going to rebut me and say tt if you dun try, how wld you know the next one is no good, den fine. i've nothing to say. it's up to you.