I passed my Feelings Test today (25thFeb2008). Now i really am very sure how i feel towards you, i confirmed that i see you as my good friend, i confirmed plus chop that i am looking forward and moving on. The feelings i onced held so dearly has now 'evolved'. The friendship we have now is the dearest to me. The happiness in your face, the sparks in your eyes, tell me all. And the happiness in my heart tells me what i need to know too. Thanks for helping me to discover my true feelings!
Ger ger, pearlydear, lulu, samtio and and and awping! GladysWong has recovered! Woots!

I had blogged about cactus before. But im gonna talk about it again.
Cactus is full of spiky leaves, so as to prevent anyone from going near her. Once you go near her, you will get hurt. She will poke you. She doesn't mean to hurt you, hurting anyone is never her intention. All she wants to do, is to protect herself. Someone asked before, would you rather some other people hurt you, or you hurt yourself? I guess cactus would rather she hurts herself by isolating herself from you, by not taking the risk of being deceived.
Yes, it is stupid. Because the hurt caused by others is unavoidable, as in, it is not within your control should anyone hurt you. However, it IS within your control that you can choose to hurt yourself or not. It is stupid to do something which you have control over and yet do it. Sighs. But, the spiky leaves on cactus will never shed. It is always there. She hopes that one day flowers will bloom. She hopes that one day she will not hurt anyone. And hopes that you will not hurt her too. She knows that you are harmless. But she doesn't know what may change along the way... Future is unpredictable. She knows that we shouldn't be afraid of what tomorrow holds for us. What matters is today. But...

Emo aside. Gladys! Jiayou yo! =)