I hate this feeling.
Tutees duno their new timetable, so nothing is fixed.
There're so many dinners and lunches and gatherings coming up.
I have not fixed my time table, cux nothing is confirmed.
ARGH. I hate this feeling. everything is so unsure. so luan. so disorganised. and im in need of a notebook (or notebooks) seriously!!!!
I need to be more organised. and know what im doing and my schedules!!!

Okk, relax choya... =))

[simplethoughts]
Had an interesting chat with my bosom today... About status in a relationship.
Status = Added pressure?
She said that she's happy about the way things are now... and is comfortable with the present situation. So, i asked, if you guys have a chance, will you jump at it, i.e to be together?
She said that, to her, having a status just means to publicise a relationship. As long as both parties are happy with each other and have committment, whether or not there's a status, it doesn't matter. Having a status doesn't mean you have to commit, similarly, you can commit to each other but not have a status. Having a status is just like an added pressure, because more people will know about the both of you. And hence, both parties will do their very best to make things work out.
I somehow agree with her. Having a status is like an added burden.
However, many people will feel that, hey, i don't have a status and hence, i am not responsible for anything and i don't have to commit. If we do have a status, then i feel that i'm tied down, and i have to be responsible for my own feelings and actions. Right? So a status can be good to make the relationship going.
Maybe, both of you are super comfy with the current situation alr, and not sure what may happen if you guys step out of the comfort zone, hence, prefer to stay like that, the way it is now. It's ok not taking any risk. We are often not risk-takers, i suppose? haha. Oh wells. Don't think of anything which is not within your control, that's an important lesson learnt.
For the 'status = added pressure', different people have different perspective ba. =))