Why was i so pissed?

Issue 1.
I hate people who plan things without my notice, i.e, make decisions on my behalf. WHat do you think it is? very romantic? You watch too much taiwan drams isit? The male lead will get tickets for a concert/movies and tell the female lead, '不见不散.' Yes, when we watch it, we will be like, wah, so sweet so romantic. But when it happens in real life, esp when it happens to me, sorry hor, im not that kinda super 小女人 who will go 'wow, you are so sweet and romantic'. I dun like it, because i may have other things planned for myself. Who are you to plan my schedule for me? When in the first place, i already told you that i may have something on? And i esp hate that last sentence, 'hope you dont disappoint me'. shucks. so if i cant make it, im gonna disappoint someone? im gonna be disappointing? what a joke man seriously.
Please dun try so hard to get me. Because the hearder you try, the more i will turn away from you.

Issue 2.
I dun understand. why do you have to say it in such a manner. You may have good intentions, den just say it nicely! WHy say it in another manner which will mean a totally different thing? Do you know how i will perceive what you say? That boils down to communication. ok, i should take out my comm txtbook again..