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Thank You
It is not very often we take the time to show appreciation for the people who mean the most in our lives. Today I want to tell you how very much you mean to me. Sometimes in our fast paced days so many things go unsaid and so many people get taken for granted. I don't want that to happen with us. You are such an important person in my life~ one of the few people who cares so much and expects so little in return. I have always felt like I can count on you for anything and I would never be let down. You go out of your way to make my life happier and the little things you do mean so very much to me. You have such a big heart filled with so much kindness and love I feel so very lucky to know you and so very blessed to have you in my life Today I want to say Thank You~ for all that you do, for all that you are and for how wonderful my life is... because you are part of it. ~Elle Mastro |
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Let's talk about relationships between people. When there're too many people in a group, things will definately get messy, or if not ugly. It's not true to say, 'especially when everyone has their own ideas', because even when there are people without any ideas, our objectives will clash. For instance, in a group of 10, while discussing matters, there can be two people without any ideas, hence they will just sit there and keep quiet. Or they don't wish to say anything because they feel that too many cooks will spoil the broth. so they rather listen to the others. To those who kept talking and suggesting, they may feel that the two are doing nothing and hence feel unhappy about it. They may even use sarcastic tone to hint that there're people who are not doing anything. When these two people recognise the hint, they will feel very 'bu shuang' and that's when the atmosphere gets bad... This always happens, especially when time is running out. It's true that people have different views on the same matter. Some may not like to give in, they may say, 'oh, im so used to it already. i dont want to change.' That's selfish. I mean, everyone is also used to doing things the way they do, why isit that they are able to give in, and not you? We should all learn how to compromise, and not stay in our comfort zone. Things can be uglier when there're two levels of managment. For instance, (at my stage now) seniors and juniors. This is the time when the seniors are worrying for us (too much, sometimes) and the juniors trying to prove themselves. It's the same as parents and children! Parents are always worrying for their children despite the kids are alr 20 years old! They still refuse to let go, for fear that we may lose our way or ruin things or 碰钉子. Well, i can understand that they mean well! and i really appreciate it. =)) Still, i wont deny that i feel it's better to sometimes let go and let us fall. haha. (this is just MY opinion!!!) Well, im saying this in general only. Not because of something which happen. It's part of the heading - relationship with people. =)) We often say things but no action is taken. "I want to meet up so and so. Must meet up during holidays. Must plan... yada yada...." But, when the day really comes, you'll be busy. I'm one guilty pig myself. (sians.) I always say i will plan the meet-ups. But when im free, no one else is. I have been spending lotsa time for my cca. and i know i missed out people like uni-gang, and tennis-mates. However whenever i m free, they wont be free. and meet-ups are always so hasty. Sighs. No matter what, i still don't believe that friendships are so fragile. When we encounter any unhappiness, we must say them out. If you still treat me as your friend (or even bestie), pls talk to me. I don't want anyone to build up their anger abt me within themseleves. It maybe very 'pek cek' at first when you try to talk to abt your unhappiness, but i believe after thrashing things out, everything will be so much clearer, sky will be more blue and we can see the beautiful rainbow better. And i also believe that fights can strengthen our relationship. No worries, i dont remember the fights, but the lesson learnt from the fights. =)) This brings me to another point. Not everyone is willing to open up to others. Some may rather sit there and 'diam diam', or boycott to show their displeasure. It's ok, we all have different personalities. Well, just have to leave them alone for a while, and be sensitive enuf to know how they feel. I'm not a pro at it. So i shant say much. Oh wells, relationships with one another are always difficult to tackle. Well, we are made of flesh and feelings, not forgetting, we have HEARTS. That's the way we are =)) [simplethoughts] How will i deal with death when i meet one? |