are you talking about yourself?
Have you ever thought that, sometimes while you are 'gossiping' or talking about another person, the way you describe him/her actually reflects yourself as well?
For eg, you said 某某人 is very self centered and unreasonable, and is very difficult to work with blahblah. But have you ever thought that, sometimes, you yourself behave the same way as the person does? or, another person actually feel that you are like that as well?

yupps. just a sudden thought.

and i bought The Time Traveler's Wife le! and started reading alr. =))
i may need to buy more books, to prepare myself to get quarantined, just in case. wahahaha!