Life is sad
today went dinner with yh. omg sooooooo long never see him le la! HAPPY BELATED 21st BIRTHDAY, YH!!!

anyway, he loves to make people cry. and i almost cried in front of them. so smug horhor? tsk. but what he said is really true...

one day, he went to his friend's wake, and another friend told him, "Life is sad. because people will only gather for you on this kind of occasion." It suddenly struck him. And when he told me that, it struck me hard, too. It is not just for friend's funeral; even for your dearest relatives or family members, it may be the same as well. How nan2 de2 it is to have everyone you know to get together? only this kind of occasion ba. it is like, for wedding or bday parties, yess, people will come, but not everyone. somehow, people will more obliged to turn up for funerals and not for joyous occasions. heh.
That's why he decided to have a birthday party, a joyous occasion, and he feels really happy to see all his friends to get together; and he treasures his friends alot.

I did not want anyone to celebrate my birthday, cux i feel it is very troublesome for them and i feel quite paiseh. That's why this year, i really really wanted to go overseas or disappear on my birthday for a looong time. But now, to think of it... if the same logic applies, does it mean that i dun want anyone to plan for my funeral as well? because it's troublesome? the worse is, it is a sad thing, not a joyous occasion like birthday.

hmmx. gladyswong, please start to treasure what you have, and feel blessed to have them around you now.